Encinitas Soccer League's
Code of Conduct
In November of 1998, the ESL Board approved
the following policy on Spectator's Behavior. This policy
includes a code of conduct and the consequences if it is violated.
Please review this policy carefully in order to avoid any
problems during this season.
The Code of Conduct is in place to insure
that all the players have a positive and safe experience during
the season. Like most other clubs, ESL encourages positive
support and enthusiasm for our players and teams and prohibits
criticism of referees and players. It also prohibits coaching
from the sidelines because it undermines the coach's authority
and creates confusion.
Most parents and spectators find that following
the Parents Code enhances their enjoyment of their child's
games. Occasionally spectators violate the Code; most often
they recognize the problem and correct it immediately. On
rare occasions parents or spectators persist in conduct which
violates the Code. In such cases the following rules apply:
- The parent or spectator will receive
ONE warning from the coach or the coach's designee.
- If the offending conduct persists, the
coach will request the parent or spectator to leave the
field.
- If the parent or spectator refuses to
leave the field, the coach will remove the parent's player
from the game.
- If a player is removed from the game
under these circumstances, the player may not play in future
games without the prior written consent of the Competitive
committee of ESL.
Players are expected to respect their coaches during practice
and the games. Talking back, inappropriate language, and not
following directions will not be tolerated. Players are encouraged
to be supportive of their teammates in a positive manner.
Negative comments to other teammates or about other teammates
has a very negative effect on team performance and will not
be tolerated.
- Make athletic participation for your child
and others a positive experience. The opponents are necessary
friends. Without them your child could not participate.
So, applaud good plays by your team and members of the opposing
team.
- If you cannot say anything positive,
don't say anything.
- . Only
those individuals who have been issued a current CYSA-South
Administrator/Coaching Pass are allowed to coach. For the
competitive teams, instruction shall come only from the
professional coach unless he/she delegates this responsibility
to a parent/assistant coach. If you want to give feedback
to your child it is best to give constructive feedback to
your child when you are alone. However, be sure your instruction
supports and does not conflict with the coach's instructions.
Remember, children have more of a need for example than
criticism. Attempt to relieve the pressure of competition,
not increase it. A child is easily affected by outside influences.
- All concerns, input about your child,
and coaching comments need to be given over the phone or
in some other private manner, and should never be done during
a game.
- There is a mechanism for coaches to
give formal written feedback regarding the referees performance
should there be a problem with a referee
- Between the exuberance of the
winner and the disappointment of the loser we find a
person called a referee. All of them follow the same
creed to watch every move of every player and to call
the game to the best of his/her ability. Do not openly
question his/her judgment and never the honesty. He/she
is a symbol of fair play, integrity and sportsmanship.
- Encourage the child to be gracious
in victory, and turn defeat to victory by working towards
improvement.
Parental evaluation carries
a great deal of weight with children. The attitude shown by
parents towards their child, the opposing team, the officials
and the coach influence the child's values and behavior in sports.
Criticism, disrespect for officials, and opponents by over-anxious
or over-protective parents bent on immediate success rather
than long range benefits undermines the purpose of sport and
brings into the game stresses beyond competition. When the child
cannot cope effectively with such stresses, it contributes to
behavior not keeping with the spirit of the game.
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